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The History of Bondage in Mass Media 5

The History of Bondage in Mass Media

vlad gansovsky – art of bondage Seui Ito The history of rope bondage (nawa shibari) as a sexual art form can be traced back in Japan to the Edo period (1600 – 1868).  Artist and writer, Seiu Ito (1882-1961), is the last known practitioner of the Ukiyoe-style of erotic arts...

Nipple Clamps 101 7

Nipple Clamps 101

From my photo shoot Coven 2006 Fatale Femmes Fotography Breasts and nipples are my favorite parts of the female anatomy because they are so fun to play with.  It is very hot playfully torturing a pair of breasts and watching them respond with pleasure, as your play partner moans and...

Are You Kinky? 0

Are You Kinky?

Social Norms Are you kinky?  That question could be answered in any variety of ways depending on who you ask.  Kinky is as kinky does and your degree of kinkiness is defined by what you consider kinky.  What may be vanilla sex to some people—say anal sex—may be edge play...

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The Case of the Mysteriously Vanishing G-spot

January 3rd 2010 the Times published an article claiming that, much like the Abominable snowman, Bigfoot and the tooth fairy, the G-spot is a myth.  Happy fucking New Year!  Of course, this ridiculous fiction posing as fact came to a surprise to the millions of women who are aware of...

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A Critique of Betty Dodsons How to Squirt Video

So last week while reading through my feeds at CarnalNation.com, I came across Betty Dodson and Carlin Ross’ video on the G-spot called “How to Squirt“.  I thought, “This should be interesting” knowing that Betty Dodson is kind-of anti-G-spot (or more accurately pro-clitoris); I was interested in what she would...

How Glass Sex Toys are Made 1

How Glass Sex Toys are Made

A month or so ago I wrote an article for CarnalNation.com, “Glass Sex Toys- Are They Safe?”, where I described a real scenario about a fellow sex reviewer who had a scary accident with a glass sex toy.  In the article I interviewed RubyGlass21, a well-respected glass toy manufacturer.  RubyGlass21...

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Defining Female Orgasms 1 2 3

Sigmund Freud first suggested that there were two types of female orgasms: clitoral and vaginal (or G-spot).  He believed that the clitoris was best used for masturbation, while the vagina or G-spot could be stimulated best by sexual intercourse.  Or course this theory made a lot of feminists angry, for...

Female Sexual Anatomy 101 0

Female Sexual Anatomy 101

Okay.  We women all know we have “girl parts’ and “lady bits” and what Oprah calls as a Va-ja-ja, but it’s time to start acting like grown-ups and refer to the parts of your genitals by their real names.  I think the reason we have so many “nick-names” for the...

Kegel Exercises for Vaginal Health 2

Kegel Exercises for Vaginal Health

The Pubococcygeus Muscle The vagina—just like every other part of your body—needs regular exercise to keep it resilient, healthy and happy.  Overtime, the vagina and its surrounding muscles on the pelvic floor can weaken, stretch, become torn and no longer offer support due to pregnancy, childbirth, aging, being overweight, abdominal...

How to Pleasure Your G-spot 10

How to Pleasure Your G-spot

The G-spot: What is it? The Gräfenberg spot or G-spot was discovered by Ernst Gräfenberg a German gynecologist who first described it as “an erotic zone located on the anterior wall of the vagina along the course of the urethra that would swell during sexual stimulation.”  The area the G-spot...

Clitoral or G-spot? 3

Clitoral or G-spot?

I have mainly been a clitoral masturbator for most of my life and have become quite a pro at it. But, when you review sex toys as much as I do (which requires a lot of masturbation–hey, I’m not complaining!) then masturbating can become rather bland at times. Sometimes you...

Female Ejaculation Without Orgasm? 4

Female Ejaculation Without Orgasm?

Woman meditating by waterfall by dave rosenberg I am reading an amazing, enlightening, informative and inspiring book by Deborah Sundal, “Female Ejaculation & the G-spot” (review coming soon!). Did you know that women can ejaculate without orgasm? Well, it never occurred to me that this was so or even to...

Anal Adventures-Going Where No-one’s Gone Before 0

Anal Adventures-Going Where No-one’s Gone Before

Previously Published 09/2008- blog.vibrator.com So you want to try anal sex.  You’ve heard about it, read about it, and maybe even had secret fantasies about it.  As an anal virgin you are curious, maybe a bit fearful, and wondering what it’s all about.  We are taught as children that the...

Sex Toy Materials-Snake Oils in Sexy Packaging? 9

Sex Toy Materials-Snake Oils in Sexy Packaging?

In your search for the perfect sex toy, you may have come across warnings about elusive sex toy materials, in particular phthalates. In 2006, Greenpeace Netherlands and UK started a huge debate and phthalate scare among consumers, retailers and manufacturers of sex toy products by calling on the European Union...

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Yes, Virginia there is a G-spot… But not every woman has one

Have you read the latest hype about the G-spot lately? On February 20th, the BBC News declared that the “Female G spot can be detected“, citing research published in the Journal of Sexual Medicine, by an Italian doctor, Emmanuele Jannini. During the study, each woman (twenty in all) underwent an...

Self Abuse and Masturbation Myths 0

Self Abuse and Masturbation Myths

From ErosBlog Masturbation has been one of the most tabooed subjects throughout history and destructive myths still circulate in today’s society. Yet, it is the most common form of sexual play and a study by the Kinsey Institute maintains that between 62 percent of women and 92 percent of men...

Esoterica On The Edge 0

Esoterica On The Edge

Image from Gothic Sluts Previously Published in Whiplash Magazine 2007 before they went bust! Dance Upon the Edge by Domina Doll Esoterica n : secrets known only to an initiated minority.—Encyclopedia Esoterica on the edge (Idioms): 1. In a precarious position. 2. In a state of keen excitement, as from...

Sex Toys: The Strange, the Bad and the Ugly 2

Sex Toys: The Strange, the Bad and the Ugly

Within the last week, sex bloggers have been posting various lists of scary, crappy, strange, ugly and all around BAD sex toys.  The ones NOT to buy. From the Accidental Blowjob we have the Bad List: “So busy discussing what sex toys and adult toys are good that some of...

Not a love story: a critique of anti-porn propaganda 3

Not a love story: a critique of anti-porn propaganda

  I first heard about Not a Love Story: a Film about Pornography (1981) a film by Bonnie Sherr Klein soon after its release, when my mother and her feminist group watched the film during one of their meetings.  My mother came back from the meeting angry: angry about pornography,...

Porn for Women- Feminist Sex Wars and Anti-porn Feminism 4

Porn for Women- Feminist Sex Wars and Anti-porn Feminism

Porn for Women covers the Feminist Sex Wars and porn/anti-porn debate exploring the women directors and who create sex positive porn and porn for women. Chick Flicks will be a series of articles, film reviews and biographies that will explore sex-positive sheros who produce pornography. During this series I hope...