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Knowing When Enough is Enough: Sex, Your Partner and their Boundaries

Let’s get one fact straight… Sex is something that the majority of us enjoy. We all have our different kinks and interests. Some of them we are comfortable sharing with others, however, some of our dirtier fantasies may involve sexual play that we are just not ready to jump into...

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5 Common Mistakes That Couples Make When Starting With BDSM

Sex is a wonderful thing, we can all agree on that. However, not all people look at it the same way. Some individuals, especially the shy and conservative ones, consider sex to be nothing more than a physical need that has to be satisfied from time to time. Other men...

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BDSM – Getting Prepared and Aftercare

As some of you probably know, BDSM stands for Bondage, Discipline or Domination, Sadism, and Masochism. It is basically the act of dominating and being dominated, sometimes associated with leather outfits, handcuffs and whips. The idea is that people role-play certain situations with each other in order to feel sexual...

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Fun with Crops

Image Source: Ruero.com In BDSM “games”, percussion play is a very popular sport.  Percussion or impact play is any type of hitting, spanking, flogging, smacking or striking type of play that wields a hand or impact implement at a part of the body for the purpose of arousing pleasure and...

Bondage 101—Part 2 Bondage Toys 0

Bondage 101—Part 2 Bondage Toys

There are so many different types of bondage toys and ways to bind people, I can really only cover the basics here. Rope—Rope is a bondage enthusiast’s main tool.  There are tones of different types of rope, but only some are useful for bondage.  I personally don’t like nylon or...

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Bondage 101—Part 1: Bondage Basics

Photos of mine: Fatale Femmes Fotography Bondage Basics Most people have experienced basic bondage in one way or another.  Whether it is your lover simply holding down your wrists while having sex, using a blindfold, or tying you to the bed with silks, bondage is not as taboo as it...

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Zen and the Art of Fire Cupping

The art of fire cupping began in many ancient cultures as a traditional therapy to treat various ailments by creating a vacuum next to the skin.  “The earliest use of cupping that is recorded is from the famous Taoist alchemist and herbalist, Ge Hong (281-341 A.D.).  The method was described...

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What Are Your Favorite Role Playing Scenes?

From my photo series “Bad Behavior” Kara Sutra talked about Roleplaying last week in her SexEd Videos here on PopMyCherryReview.  It made me start thinking of all the different role-playing scenarios I have created and my favorite scenes. In my article last week, Are You Kinky? I defined role playing...

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The History of Bondage in Mass Media 2- Wonder Woman

Last week I explored the History of Bondage in Mass Media with a brief look at the roots of bondage in Japan, then onto Western Culture.  I investigated imagery from John Willie, Bettie Page and Irving Klaw, Pulp Fiction Detective magazines, silent films and seductive celluloid, then retro TV and...

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Sensation Play with Fur

Fur Tickler Sensation play is a sensual way of touching your lover that is a wonderful form of erotic foreplay.  It can consist of tying someone up and tickling them with a feather, rubbing fur or silk over their flesh while blindfolded, pouring hot candle wax on your partner’s skin...

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The History of Bondage in Mass Media

vlad gansovsky – art of bondage Seui Ito The history of rope bondage (nawa shibari) as a sexual art form can be traced back in Japan to the Edo period (1600 – 1868).  Artist and writer, Seiu Ito (1882-1961), is the last known practitioner of the Ukiyoe-style of erotic arts...

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Nipple Clamps 101

From my photo shoot Coven 2006 Fatale Femmes Fotography Breasts and nipples are my favorite parts of the female anatomy because they are so fun to play with.  It is very hot playfully torturing a pair of breasts and watching them respond with pleasure, as your play partner moans and...

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Are You Kinky?

Social Norms Are you kinky?  That question could be answered in any variety of ways depending on who you ask.  Kinky is as kinky does and your degree of kinkiness is defined by what you consider kinky.  What may be vanilla sex to some people—say anal sex—may be edge play...