Amazingly Strange Phone Sex Requests
Calling a phone sex operator is like turning 16 and getting your license. You are totally free to be whoever you want to be and go wherever you want to go! “The beauty of the operation is in its anonymity, which lends itself to a world of sexual make believe that goes beyond the slutty nurse or doggy style fantasies” says Morgan Jean, from phonesexqueen.com. We spoke to 32 phone sex operators to get their takes on the strangest fantasies they’ve been asked to participate in, and we listed and explained each one for you. Everything is completely anonymous and strangely awesome!
Small Penis Humiliation
Yes, it’s exactly how it sounds. Some men get turned on by being made to feel awkward, shamed, or humiliated due to the size of their penis. Do they have to have a small penis in real life? Absolutely not. Like most phone sex fantasies, the emotions the words evoke are the turn on. During the conversation, the operator will take on the role of the dominator and insult the caller by telling him that his penis could never satisfy anyone, that he is completely worthless, and he shouldn’t even call himself a man due to the size of his penis. The shame inflicted on the paying customer causes a surge of sexual energy to flood their peen, big or small! It’s sadomasochism (a person’s sexual enjoyment of pain inflicted unto themselves) in the psychological sense.
Cuckolding
Cuckolding is a pretty old term that simply means infidelity. Today, it describes a scenario in which a man watches his lover/girlfriend/boyfriend have sex with other men in front of him, and it’s another form of psychological sadomasochism. To allow the caller to visualize the fantasy, the operator often will pretend to be the partner of the caller and describe to him how she is being fucked by someone who is better, stronger, and sexier than he ever could be. What separates it from small penis humiliation, aside from the whole penis aspect, is that it is less about humiliation and more about competition.
Financial Domination
When an operator receives a call from someone who is into financial domination, he/she has hit the jackpot. This term describes a person who gets their jollies from paying someone. It’s not as simple as buying a sandwich at Subway. That wouldn’t necessarily turn on a lover of Findom. This person is usually a man who enjoys being belittled by a gay man, trans woman, or woman who acts like a ruthless queen. In the world of Findom, there is frequent use of certain terms such as paypig (the person who gets off on paying out), tribute (the payment), and sissy (a weak loser). As the queen spews horrific insults through the phone to the caller, they respond by thanking the operator for allowing them to even speak to a queen in the first place.
Macrophilia
Some men like their ladies to be big, and some men like their ladies to be really big. Macrophilia refers to the often male fantasy of being physically dominated by a giantess. These men fantasize about a sexy Godzilla who uses them as a human sex toy. For the operator, this requires a large amount of imagination. The operator will describe parts of her body squashing, suffocating, or smashing the puny caller. For example, they may ask, “You like it when I smack you with my big floppy tit and squash you like a ragdoll?” It’s a psychological impression of extreme physical domination.
Girlfriend Experience
The girlfriend experience is something that veers a bit from the average sexual phone call. People who call in for the girlfriend (or boyfriend) experience are seeking companionship. They want someone to talk to and share their secrets with. Often, the operator is thought of as a long distance partner. The conversation typically ranges from discussing the work life, sexual life, and daily life of the caller. While there is a lot of chatting about one’s personal life, the nature of the call isn’t platonic or just friendly. It can certainly lead to raunchy phone sex but remains placed in the setting of an open long-distance relationship. The caller might discuss people in their real worlds that they find attractive and divulge their fantasies while masturbating to someone they forge an intimate emotional connection with.
Dirty Old Lady or Granny
This is a fantasy that is pretty self-explanatory. It’s for people (again, typically men) who are looking for a mature older woman to take them through their sexual fantasy. However, this goes beyond a milf or cougar fetish. It’s a desire for an older, wiser, wrinklier, and dirtier old woman to bring a caller to climax over the phone. Sometimes, the caller is looking to be treated like a child or even a baby by a granny. He/she might fantasize that the operator is their own grandmother. We are not here to judge as long as everything is legal, everyone is of age, and it remains a simple expression of fantasy. A large part of this fantasy involves diapers and the desire for the caller to have his diaper changed by a granny. These men are sometimes called “diapey boys.”
