The Ultimate Guide to Cunnilingus and Fellatio by Violet Blue

I have been reading “The Ultimate Guide to Cunnilingus” and “The Ultimate Guide to Fellatio”, 2^nd Editions, both by author and sexpert Violet Blue for the past few months.  I read them together because I thought they would complement each other, which they do.  In fact, much of the information in several chapters is almost identical, and can be interchangeable such as health concerns, hygiene, foreplay, and some advanced tips like sensation play.

Both books are extremely comprehensive and Blue has added everything she could think of to include in them from sexual shame, fears and pre-performance concerns, to male and female anatomy and sexual response, to expert techniques, fantasy, positions, using toys, erotic genital massage and more.  These guides are written for the beginner, or someone who has never explored oral sex before, but there is still a wealth of ideas and techniques that even an oral expert could use.

In “The Ultimate Guide to Cunnilingus” you will learn:

• About the Clitoris, the G spot and Female Ejaculation.
• Various types of mouth, lip and tongue-play gymnastics.
• About the female orgasm, and NOT to stop.
• How to Avoid Tongue and Jaw cramping.
• Erotic fantasy, power exchange, and bondage.
• Sexual Energy Pressure Points on the Body.

In “The Ultimate Guide to Fellatio” you will learn:

• Erection Questions and Pre-mature Ejaculation.
• All about the Penis, Testicles and Prostate.
• Gagging and Deep Throating.
• Avoiding Jaw Cramp and Keeping your Lipstick Perfect.
• Giving Blow-jobs to Strap-ons.
• Erotic fantasy, power exchange, and bondage.
• How to enjoy watching porn.

The final chapter on Resources is fairly similar in both books, and there are some great recommendations for books, DVDs, and websites both for finding more knowledge and erotic inspiration.  Both books also feature short erotic fiction stories by Alyson Tyler as well as hand drawn illustrations.

Blue’s tone is easy and conversational.  She never sounds preachy, or like a know-it-all, even though she does know a lot when it comes to sex.  Her information is well researched and referenced, so you know she’s not just making up facts as she goes along, but referencing real studies and sexual information.

There are lots of oral sex books out there that don’t tell you the facts or reference their material, but just give you a list of tips that the author thinks are great, much of which is pure fantasy or simply ridiculous.  If you want to find out the real facts on Oral Sex, these two books are the Bible on these subjects, and you really don’t need to (nor should you) go anywhere else.  While practice makes perfect, knowledge is power.

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