My Experience as a Phone Sex Worker
Phone sex line companies are one of the few adult-oriented companies that have a huge umbrella to protect their staff and clients. While in the university, phone sex companies became mine, and my friends’ last option to raise money for our tuition fees. It was three of us; Stella, Ola, and I. We all came from Italy to further our education in the UK. Unfortunately, luck ran out on us, or I should say life happened, and we couldn’t afford to pay our tuition fee. It was so difficult that we thought of going back to Italy and never to look back again.
One day, Stella was researching how to make fast money as a sex therapist. I didn’t know what she was thinking or ever heard the word “sex therapist” before. Unfortunately, none of us was qualified to work in that space. She continued her search until she found an expired domain that listed multiple keyword options to make fast money. That was where she discovered phone sex companies that were offering work.
At first, Ola and I were skeptical, we didn’t want to be associated with such an organization, after all, we had a few months to graduate and start what we were passionate about. Time passed by, and we had to search for fast ways to make money too. We came across several internet business options, but none could guarantee us to make the amount of money we needed in a short time frame.
With so much hesitation, we decided to join a phone sex line company as suggested by Stella. To our surprise, the experience was absolutely beyond our imagination. I don’t know how we ended up having similar experiences; I was confused about what phone sex customers feel like… Shockingly, not every caller wanted sexual appeal. Some needed psychological support, and the only place they could resort to or trust was phone sex companies.
(For those of you wondering, the specific company we worked for at the time is unfortunately no longer active, but there’s many others online just like it which provide flexible work for women and men. One notable company is Phone Sex Lines (www.phonesexlines.uk), which has a number of good reviews from others I’ve spoken to in the industry and they also pay a steady hourly rate.)
The anonymity of the business gave everyone a chance to be their “actual” self or whoever they felt to be. Most of my experiences are too confidential to put into words! But what you need to know is that some men are mere shadows of themselves. It is bad that the community focuses more on women while men are considered alpha. Nevertheless, kindness is a virtue to behold, and it can make you learn a lot if you pay close attention.
One day while I was on shift, by the way, I worked 4 hours a day, a man called and burst into tears. I tried my best to calm him down and asked him what was wrong.
He explained…
“Ever since he lost his job due to an occupational accident, with the case pending in court, his wife has been maltreating him. The wife brings men to the house, and the act made him lose his self-confidence to the extent of attempting suicide. “
I was so empathetic that I grieved with him and gave him my two cents of advice. One thing I noticed about the job is that your kindness goes a long way; you may never know whose life you are saving.
Nevertheless, not all callers are seeking support or a shoulder to cry on. As a phone operator, you have to be ready all the time to face unimaginable scenarios. Some called because they needed the actual service while some were just people who wanted a chat.
No matter what, you have to spread love. Coincidentally, Ola and Stella had similar experiences. I remember Ola telling me that most of her callers were not seeking sexual advances, they just needed someone to talk to and be themselves without being judged. However, some were unapologetically fetish; you would be shocked!
In a couple of months, my friends and I learned a lot of real-life experiences, and trust me we made good money to sort out our financial problems. Even though the journey was a roller-coaster, it’s worth all the time, stress, and energy we put into the work. I would do it over and over again if I had the chance. Working in a phone sex line company is an experience every lady should have.
Now my friends and I are now master’s degree holders. I graduated from the Department of Sociology, and I intend to explore psychology to know more about human interaction, all thanks to my experience at the phone sex company I worked with.
